IS YOUR DIET HELPING OR HURTING YOU?
We've had a look at the science and I'm going to share with you how food affects your brain, and how it might be impacting on your anxiety.
There are hundreds of thousands of studies on this, and not just small research. I’m talking well designed large studies.
So what’s been found?
It’s well established that our diet can play a role in the prevention and treatment of brain-based disorders, like anxiety and depression.
Those diets that are high in carbohydrates, sugar, etc. (junk food diets) are associated with increased risk of mental health disorders. What we currently know can be boiled-down-to:

Inflammation
Some of the things we eat can set-off our immune system - causing inflammation.
Inflammation causes oxidative stress, which leads to distress signals in the brain, which can obviously affect your anxiety.

Nutrients
The brain needs nutrients to work. A lot of nutrients. In fact, the brain uses up 20-50% of our energy and nutrients!
When it’s running short of these, we get problems with anxiety, depression, ADHD and PTSD, among other things.

Microbiome
We want to avoid food that feeds unhelpful bacteria while killing helpful bacteria.
Research suggests that probiotics (helpful bacteria) do in-fact help soothe anxiety, through their interaction with our Central Nervous System.
So, what kinds of food should we eat more or less of to reduce your anxiety?
We've got videos for you filled-with tips and interesting information on how to improve anxiety with the food we eat!
Foods for anxiety
- Cover the 3 key ways food affects your brain and your anxiety
- what foods to eat less or more of to reduce your anxiety and improve your mood
How to get started on a healthy diet
- Top 8 Tips on how to get started on a healthy diet
- Benefits of having this healthy diet
How to stick to a diet
- 4 tips to help you turn that diet into a healthy lifestyle
- How to stick to your diet on the weekend
Foods for anxiety
- Cover the 3 key ways food affects your brain and your anxiety
- What foods to eat less or more of to reduce your anxiety and improve your mood
How to get started on a healthy diet
- Top 8 tips on how to get started with a healthy diet
- Benefits of having a healthy diet
How to stick to a diet
- 4 tips to help you turn that diet into a healthy lifestyle
- How to stick to your diet on the weekend
How to save money on food
- Top 7 tips on how to save money on an anti-anxiety diet
- Learn to save money on food but still eat healthy and nutrient-dense food
What Anxiety Specialists eat
- We cover what we don't eat - which includes most of the supermarket.
- We cover what we do eat. Including what foods it is and isn't important to go organic on.
Anti-anxiety diet gummy lollies
- These gummy lollies were a big part of making the anti-anxiety diet a possible and lasting change
- Fun and healthy snack you can munch
How to save money on food
- Top 7 tips on how to save money on an anti-anxiety diet
- Learn to save money on food but still eat healthy and nutrient-dense food
What Anxiety Specialists eat
- We cover what we don't eat (most of the supermarket)
- We cover what we do eat. Including what foods are and are not important to go organic on
Anti-Anxiety Diet gummy lollies
- These gummy lollies were a big part of making the Anti-Anxiety Diet a possible and lasting change
- Fun and healthy snack you can munch
So, how do I eat this way?
START WITH ELIMINATION FOR 30 DAYS
(AND HERE IS WHAT TO ELIMINATE)
Processed Food
Anything with a long ingredients list or manufacturing process.
Processed food is manufactured to be cheap (sugar is used as a cheap filler). Chemicals are added so that it is portable and shelf-stable. It is manipulated for texture, mouthfeel, and taste. It also tends to be polluted with toxicants, such as pesticides.
- Refined carbohydrates and flour (chips, pretzels, crackers, cookies, pastries, muffins, buns, bread, pizza dough, cakes, doughnuts, energy bars, candy, fried foods, and any processed low-fat foods.
- Hydrogenated vegetable oils
- Preservatives
- Dyes
- Emulsifiers
- Taste enhancers
- Flavoured drinks and beverages like tea and coffee
Allergens
Foods identified by the research as allergenic. For a range of reasons – pesticides, processing, genetic modification, hybridization.
- Gluten
- Soy
- Corn
- Grains
- Dairy
As a start, avoid gluten-containing grains. Quinoa, buckwheat, white rice, and white potatoes may ultimately be fine; however, most people benefit from a temporary 30-day break to really heal first before adding them back in. Also included in the 30-day restriction is legumes, as the lectins they contain can have inflammatory effects.
- Beans
- Peas
- Lentils
- Peanuts (not a nut)
Sugar
Causes oxidative stress, inflammation and disruption to our metabolism, hormones, gut, immune system, and brain function. We just aren’t equipped to tolerate it in anywhere near the quantities we eat it in!
Also, cut out any sweeteners to help unhook from “bliss-point”.
- Evaporated can juice
- Corn syrup
- High-fructose corn syrup
- Crystalling fructose
- Fructose
- Sucrose
- Malt
- Maltose
- Maltodextrin
- Dextrose
- Beet sugar
- Turbinado sugar
- Invert sugar
So, here is what to eat
The Clean 15
if you’re going to choose non-organic, you should look at “The Clean 15.”
These fruits and vegetables might contain trace amounts of pesticides, but overall they’re not very harmful and worth buying non-organic
- Avocados
- Sweet Corn
- Pineapples
- Sweet Peas Frozen
- Onions
- Papayas
- Eggplants
- Asparagus
- Kiwifruit
- Cabbages
- Cauliflower
- Cantaloupes
- Broccoli
- Mushrooms
- Honeydew Melons
The Dirty Dozen
The Environmental Working Group releases a list each year of fruits and veggies you should always buy organic. Those are known as “The Dirty Dozen,” thanks to their high likelihood of exposure to and absorption of pesticides.
- Strawberries
- apples
- Nectarines
- Peaches
- Celery
- Grapes
- Cherries
- Spinach
- Tomatoes
- Bell peppers
- Cherry tomatoes
- Cucumbers
Fresh Fruits and Vegetables
- Root vegetables
- Pastured meats
- Wild fish
- Pastured eggs,
- Nuts, and seeds
- Traditional fats like olive oil, coconut oil, or grass-fed ghee
- Drink: filtered water and kombucha
REINTRODUCTION
Once past the 30-days of elimination, reintroduce foods one-by-one, with 5 days until the next (so you can tell what’s effecting you):
Potato
Dairy (starting with the least allergenic, butter, and working towards the most; milk). We found we tolerated organic dairy, but not inorganic. Due to whatever pharmaceuticals were being fed to the cows, or other chemicals or pesticides in their feed.
Soaked legumes (look for bloating, gas or exacerbation of autoimmune conditions)
It can be useful to keep a diary of how you’re feeling over this time.
MINDFUL EATING
Try eating as mindfully as you can to give your body a headstart on identifying what it needs to digest, as well getting that food nicely chewed-up.
How do I maintain a healthy diet long-term?
You may be thinking,
“Keeping up a diet is hard! There is SO much cooking. I can’t do a week, how am I going to manage the rest of my life?”
You may be wondering how to stop yourself from giving in to your cravings. Whether to use cheat days help you to stick with it, etc.
Long-term change can be a challenge and that’s why we have come up with The C’s of seeing it through.
CREATING YOUR OWN CONVENIENCE
I do this through cooking in bulk and freezing.
Having a stockpile of bulk-cooked meals makes a huge difference on those nights when you don’t feel up to cooking.
This can be as simple as just cooking a bit extra.
Or as hardcore as a massive stockpiling mission. I did this in the months leading up to my son’s birth.
I do this for convenience and to stay away from premade food.
Premade food is often highly processed and full of preservatives to lengthen out its shelf life. Making it from scratch and freezing it is often a much healthier option. This way you have food to grab when you’re in a rush but know it’s the sort of food that is good for your body. Creating healthy convenience when you need it.
Some of my top cook-in-bulk options are
Bolognese
I love having some containers of meat and bolognese sauce sitting in my freezer. When I need a straightforward meal I heat it up and pour it over spaghetti squash and spinach.
We have some organic cheese and a bit of milk kefir on top and it’s delicious.
Chicken thighs
Precooked and then frozen. I sprinkle salt, pepper and garlic powder and bake them in the oven for 40-50 mins. It’s pretty easy to heat up some veggies or make a salad to go with it.
Beef and mushroom stew
Or any slow-cooked meal really.
Throw all the ingredients in a slow cooker and leave it all day.
When you get home you have hot food and leftovers to freeze for lunches or a quick dinner on a busy day.
I even made paleo pizza bases I found online, covered them in toppings, and froze them. This was an awesome quick easy and yummy treat when I didn’t feel up to cooking.
Frozen treats can also be great. I have made paleo snickers bars, coconut oil chocolates, and zucchini chocolate chip muffins.
Talking about treats is an important area when it comes to sticking with a healthy diet.
GETTING TO THE CORE OF YOUR CONVENIENCE
Treats can make or break sticking to a diet.
That's why I prioritize making healthy options for my unhealthy cravings.
I’d say the real trick to this is to figure out what it is that you are really craving.
Is it the crunch?
The chew?
The sweet taste?
The savory tang?
If you don’t figure this part out, the alternative you make is unlikely to cut it.
For me, I craved gummy bears. I came to realize it wasn’t so much the sweetness as it was the gelatin texture. So I made a paleo alternative with some gelatin and fruit juice. This helped to start with as a bit of a transition. Then I took it a step further by including more gelatin in my diet. I did this by using more bone broth in my cooking. As well as Collagen Hydrolysate in my morning smoothies.
Since eating more gelatin-rich foods, my gummy bear cravings have almost died off completely.
I think often we believe our bodies are out to get us. Pressuring us to eat unhealthy food. When I moved to the way of eating we call P.A.S.S. I started listening to my body and its cravings more. Not taking the first option it presents, but looking deeper into what it is really needing and desiring. By providing for that I now move through cravings rather than feeling like they control me.
When making treats, I try to lean into healthier options. I try to use fresh fruit, raw honey, and real maple syrup for sweetness.
I also like to include healthy fats like avocado, coconut oil, and organic butter.
Here are some of my favorite treats to make:
-
Popcorn I pop myself in ghee, covered in organic butter and some mineral salt.
-
Chocolate is made from cocoa powder, coconut oil, honey, and vanilla essence. With nuts and dried fruit.
-
Zucchini chocolate muffins with the main ingredients being zucchini, banana, cashew butter, and cocoa powder.
-
Chocolate mousse made using avocado for the creaminess. So crazy good with some fresh strawberries.
I find I come and go off my different treats. I think that’s ok and part of the process.
Now, some of my treats can be challenging to make or take up quite a bit of time to prepare. I find it’s a good idea to have treats that are less accessible. When the craving starts to dwindle, it gives me pause about whether I want to keep making that time-consuming treat or just grab a piece of fresh fruit.
However healthy the individual ingredients of a treat might be, most often they are in a quantity that is not ideal.
It’s best to have them infrequently.
So treat yourself on occasion, however, cheating is a whole different thing which I will now cover in my third tip
CHEATER'S CAVE - CREATING CRAVING-FREE CUPBOARD
Maybe you have come across the idea of having a cheat meal a week or maybe even an entire day of cheating. The idea is that for that meal or day you can eat whatever you like. People suggest this helps you to stick with a diet.
My opinion may not be popular, but I believe cheater’s cave.
Now don’t get me wrong, I definitely think you should treat yourself through healthy options that satisfy your cravings.
What I’m talking about is eating food you know to be unhealthy. Food that goes against your new healthy choices. Cheating doesn’t just compromise the diet. Cheating compromises your own health goal.
In almost all other areas, I feel we understand this. You want to have a healthy long-term relationship. Cheating one day a week is not the way to do it. You are trying to build a healthy relationship with your body through the food you’re eating. Cheating is not the way to do that.
The other thing is, that even if you only have one cheat meal a week, I have noticed the obsession that can come with that one meal. Fantasizing about what you plan to consume on that day can spill over into the rest of your week and affect your supermarket shop.
You hopefully started eating this way by throwing out all the food you plan to never eat again as I suggested in our how to get started video.
So you don’t want to spoil those efforts by going and buying those exact same things and bringing them back into your house. Don’t cruise around the supermarket checking out all that food you said you wouldn’t eat anymore. Planning and purchasing what you might have for that meal where your new healthy principles don't apply.
I’ve found this just maintains the desire and taste for those foods.
In contrast, if you can avoid them entirely you can recalibrate how you experience food.
We now find sweets pretty sickening and broccoli sweet.
Instead of creating a new lifestyle that will become easier and more normal for you. Cheating it will stay just a diet and not a long-term change.
Ultimately, I see you cheating yourself out of a healthier life.
Now, it will really help to have supportive people around you. Helping you to stay faithful to your new way of eating.
So join or create a culinary community!
Find your people, people who eat the way you do, and support your healthy life changes.
If you want to change to a healthier way of living it can be hard when you feel alone in it and isolated by it. That’s why connecting with people who eat how you eat is so important I think. People whom you can have meals with and share recipes.
We have the person who got us onto this way of eating and it is so nice to hang out with her and eat the way we eat together. The feeling of comradery is great and it really motivates us to stick with it.
There are all sorts of online communities so there are no excuses if you don’t know anyone personally that eats like this.
As a bonus, we want to address how to stick to a healthy diet on the weekend.
Firstly I’d suggest you steer clear of using one of those days as a cheat day. This is not going to help you stick with it. Rather it may derail the rest of your week.
Use the extra time you may have on the weekend to cook in bulk so you don’t have to cook as much during the week when you are busy with work or school.
Decide on a special treat meal that sticks to the diet guidelines. This might be a little more time-consuming to make or have slightly fancier ingredients to help you feel excited by the diet. Eating healthy can feel like luxury if you make an effort.
I hope these tips can help you stick to your diet.
More importantly, I hope it changes a diet into a permanent healthy lifestyle.
I see this as the real goal of these tips.
IS YOUR DIET HELPING OR HURTING YOU?
We've had a look at the science and I'm going to share with you how food affects your brain, and how it might be impacting on your anxiety.
There are hundreds of thousands of studies on this, and not just small research. I’m talking well designed large studies.
So what’s been found?
It’s well established that our diet can play a role in the prevention and treatment of brain-based disorders, like anxiety and depression.
Those diets that are high in carbohydrates, sugar, etc. (junk food diets) are associated with increased risk of mental health disorders. What we currently know can be boiled-down-to:

Inflammation
Some of the things we eat can set-off our immune system - causing inflammation.
Inflammation causes oxidative stress, which leads to distress signals in the brain, which can obviously affect your anxiety.

Nutrients
The brain needs nutrients to work. A lot of nutrients. In fact, the brain uses up 20-50% of our energy and nutrients!
When it’s running short of these, we get problems with anxiety, depression, ADHD and PTSD, among other things.

Microbiome
We want to avoid food that feeds unhelpful bacteria while killing helpful bacteria.
Research suggests that probiotics (helpful bacteria) do in-fact help soothe anxiety, through their interaction with our Central Nervous System.
So, what kinds of food should we eat more or less of to reduce your anxiety?
We've got videos for you filled-with tips and interesting information on how to improve anxiety with the food we eat!
Foods for anxiety
- Cover the 3 key ways food affects your brain and your anxiety
- what foods to eat less or more of to reduce your anxiety and improve your mood
How to get started on a healthy diet
- Top 8 Tips on how to get started on a healthy diet
- Benefits of having this healthy diet
How to stick to a diet
- 4 tips to help you turn that diet into a healthy lifestyle
- How to stick to your diet on the weekend
Foods for anxiety
- Cover the 3 key ways food affects your brain and your anxiety
- What foods to eat less or more of to reduce your anxiety and improve your mood
How to get started on a healthy diet
- Top 8 tips on how to get started with a healthy diet
- Benefits of having a healthy diet
How to stick to a diet
- 4 tips to help you turn that diet into a healthy lifestyle
- How to stick to your diet on the weekend
How to save money on food
- Top 7 tips on how to save money on an anti-anxiety diet
- Learn to save money on food but still eat healthy and nutrient-dense food
What Anxiety Specialists eat
- We cover what we don't eat - which includes most of the supermarket.
- We cover what we do eat. Including what foods it is and isn't important to go organic on.
Anti-anxiety diet gummy lollies
- These gummy lollies were a big part of making the anti-anxiety diet a possible and lasting change
- Fun and healthy snack you can munch
How to save money on food
- Top 7 tips on how to save money on an anti-anxiety diet
- Learn to save money on food but still eat healthy and nutrient-dense food
What Anxiety Specialists eat
- We cover what we don't eat (most of the supermarket)
- We cover what we do eat. Including what foods are and are not important to go organic on
Anti-Anxiety Diet gummy lollies
- These gummy lollies were a big part of making the Anti-Anxiety Diet a possible and lasting change
- Fun and healthy snack you can munch
So, how do I eat this way?
START WITH ELIMINATION FOR 30 DAYS
(AND HERE IS WHAT TO ELIMINATE)
Processed Food
Anything with a long ingredients list or manufacturing process.
Processed food is manufactured to be cheap (sugar is used as a cheap filler). Chemicals are added so that it is portable and shelf-stable. It is manipulated for texture, mouthfeel, and taste. It also tends to be polluted with toxicants, such as pesticides.
- Refined carbohydrates and flour (chips, pretzels, crackers, cookies, pastries, muffins, buns, breads, pizza dough, cakes, doughnuts, energy bars, candy, fried foods, and any processed ‘low fat’ foods.
- Hydrogenated vegetable oils
- Preservatives
- Dyes
- Emulsifiers
- Taste enhancers
- Flavoured drinks and beverages like tea and coffee
Allergens
Foods identified by the research as allergenic. For a range of reasons – pesticides, processing, genetic modification, hybridization.
- Gluten
- Soy
- Corn
- Grains
- Dairy
As a start, avoid gluten-containing grains. Quinoa, buckwheat, white rice, and white potatoes may ultimately be fine; however, most people benefit from a temporary 30-day break to really heal first before adding them back in. Also included in the 30-day restriction is legumes, as the lectins they contain can have inflammatory effects.
- Beans
- Peas
- Lentils
- Peanuts (not a nut)
Sugar
Causes oxidative stress, inflammation and disruption to our metabolism, hormones, gut, immune system, and brain function. We just aren’t equipped to tolerate it in anywhere near the quantities we eat it in!
Also, cut out any sweeteners to help unhook from “bliss-point”.
- Evaporated can juice
- Corn syrup
- High-fructose corn syrup
- Crystalling fructose
- Fructose
- Sucrose
- Malt
- Maltose
- Maltodextrin
- Dextrose
- Beet sugar
- Turbinado sugar
- Invert sugar
So, here is what to eat
The Clean 15
if you’re going to choose non-organic, you should look at “The Clean 15.” These fruits and vegetables might contain trace amounts of pesticides, but overall they’re not very harmful and worth buying non-organic
- Avocados
- Sweet Corn
- Pineapples
- Sweet Peas Frozen
- Onions
- Papayas
- Eggplants
- Asparagus
- Kiwifruit
- Cabbages
- Cauliflower
- Cantaloupes
- Broccoli
- Mushrooms
- Honeydew Melons
The Dirty Dozen
The Environmental Working Group releases a list each year of fruits and veggies you should always buy organic. Those are known as “The Dirty Dozen,” thanks to their high likelihood of exposure to and absorption of pesticides.
- Strawberries
- apples
- Nectarines
- Peaches
- Celery
- Grapes
- Cherries
- Spinach
- Tomatoes
- Bell peppers
- Cherry tomatoes
- Cucumbers
.
..
.
Fresh Fruits and Vegetables
- Root vegetables
- Pastured meats
- Wild fish
- Pastured eggs,
- Nuts, and seeds
- Traditional fats like olive oil, coconut oil, or grass-fed ghee
- Drink: filtered water and kombucha
The Environmental Working Group releases a list each year of fruits and veggies you should always buy organic. Those are known as “The Dirty Dozen,” thanks to their high likelihood of exposure to and absorption of pesticides. their high likelihood of exposure to and absorption of pesticides.
REINTRODUCTION
Once past the 30-days of elimination, reintroduce foods one-by-one, with 5 days until the next (so you can tell what’s effecting you):
Potato
Dairy (starting with the least allergenic, butter, and working towards the most; milk). We found we tolerated organic dairy, but not inorganic. Due to whatever pharmaceuticals were being fed to the cows, or other chemicals or pesticides in their feed.
Soaked legumes (look for bloating, gas or exacerbation of autoimmune conditions)
It can be useful to keep a diary of how you’re feeling over this time.
MINDFUL EATING
Try eating as mindfully as you can to give your body a headstart on identifying what it needs to digest, as well getting that food nicely chewed-up.
How do I maintain a healthy diet long-term?
You may be thinking,
“Keeping up a diet is hard! There is SO much cooking. I can’t do a week, how am I going to manage the rest of my life?”
You may be wondering how to stop yourself from giving in to your cravings. Whether to use cheat days help you to stick with it, etc.
Long-term change can be a challenge and that’s why we have come up with The C’s of seeing it through.
CREATING YOUR OWN CONVENIENCE
I do this through cooking in bulk and freezing.
Having a stockpile of bulk-cooked meals makes a huge difference on those nights when you don’t feel up to cooking.
This can be as simple as just cooking a bit extra.
Or as hardcore as a massive stockpiling mission. I did this in the months leading up to my son’s birth.
I do this for convenience and to stay away from premade food.
Premade food is often highly processed and full of preservatives to lengthen out its shelf life. Making it from scratch and freezing it is often a much healthier option. This way you have food to grab when you’re in a rush but know it’s the sort of food that is good for your body. Creating healthy convenience when you need it.
Some of my top cook-in-bulk options are
Bolognese
I love having some containers of meat and bolognese sauce sitting in my freezer. When I need a straightforward meal I heat it up and pour it over spaghetti squash and spinach.
We have some organic cheese and a bit of milk kefir on top and it’s delicious.
Chicken thighs
Precooked and then frozen. I sprinkle salt, pepper and garlic powder and bake them in the oven for 40-50 mins. It’s pretty easy to heat up some veggies or make a salad to go with it.
Beef and mushroom stew
Or any slow-cooked meal really.
Throw all the ingredients in a slow cooker and leave it all day.
When you get home you have hot food and leftovers to freeze for lunches or a quick dinner on a busy day.
I even made paleo pizza bases I found online, covered them in toppings, and froze them. This was an awesome quick easy and yummy treat when I didn’t feel up to cooking.
Frozen treats can also be great. I have made paleo snickers bars, coconut oil chocolates, and zucchini chocolate chip muffins.
Talking about treats is an important area when it comes to sticking with a healthy diet.
GETTING TO THE CORE OF YOUR CONVENIENCE
Treats can make or break sticking to a diet.
That's why I prioritize making healthy options for my unhealthy cravings.
I’d say the real trick to this is to figure out what it is that you are really craving.
Is it the crunch?
The chew?
The sweet taste?
The savory tang?
If you don’t figure this part out, the alternative you make is unlikely to cut it.
For me, I craved gummy bears. I came to realize it wasn’t so much the sweetness as it was the gelatin texture. So I made a paleo alternative with some gelatin and fruit juice. This helped to start with as a bit of a transition. Then I took it a step further by including more gelatin in my diet. I did this by using more bone broth in my cooking. As well as Collagen Hydrolysate in my morning smoothies.
Since eating more gelatin-rich foods, my gummy bear cravings have almost died off completely.
I think often we believe our bodies are out to get us. Pressuring us to eat unhealthy food. When I moved to the way of eating we call P.A.S.S. I started listening to my body and its cravings more. Not taking the first option it presents, but looking deeper into what it is really needing and desiring. By providing for that I now move through cravings rather than feeling like they control me.
When making treats, I try to lean into healthier options. I try to use fresh fruit, raw honey, and real maple syrup for sweetness.
I also like to include healthy fats like avocado, coconut oil, and organic butter.
Here are some of my favorite treats to make:
-
Popcorn I pop myself in ghee, covered in organic butter and some mineral salt.
-
Chocolate is made from cocoa powder, coconut oil, honey, and vanilla essence. With nuts and dried fruit.
-
Zucchini chocolate muffins with the main ingredients being zucchini, banana, cashew butter, and cocoa powder.
-
Chocolate mousse made using avocado for the creaminess. So crazy good with some fresh strawberries.
I find I come and go off my different treats. I think that’s ok and part of the process.
Now, some of my treats can be challenging to make or take up quite a bit of time to prepare. I find it’s a good idea to have treats that are less accessible. When the craving starts to dwindle, it gives me pause about whether I want to keep making that time-consuming treat or just grab a piece of fresh fruit.
However healthy the individual ingredients of a treat might be, most often they are in a quantity that is not ideal.
It’s best to have them infrequently.
So treat yourself on occasion, however, cheating is a whole different thing which I will now cover in my third tip
CHEATER'S CAVE - CREATING CRAVING-FREE CUPBOARD
Maybe you have come across the idea of having a cheat meal a week or maybe even an entire day of cheating. The idea is that for that meal or day you can eat whatever you like. People suggest this helps you to stick with a diet.
My opinion may not be popular, but I believe cheater’s cave.
Now don’t get me wrong, I definitely think you should treat yourself through healthy options that satisfy your cravings.
What I’m talking about is eating food you know to be unhealthy. Food that goes against your new healthy choices. Cheating doesn’t just compromise the diet. Cheating compromises your own health goal.
In almost all other areas, I feel we understand this. You want to have a healthy long-term relationship. Cheating one day a week is not the way to do it. You are trying to build a healthy relationship with your body through the food you’re eating. Cheating is not the way to do that.
The other thing is, that even if you only have one cheat meal a week, I have noticed the obsession that can come with that one meal. Fantasizing about what you plan to consume on that day can spill over into the rest of your week and affect your supermarket shop.
You hopefully started eating this way by throwing out all the food you plan to never eat again as I suggested in our how to get started video.
So you don’t want to spoil those efforts by going and buying those exact same things and bringing them back into your house. Don’t cruise around the supermarket checking out all that food you said you wouldn’t eat anymore. Planning and purchasing what you might have for that meal where your new healthy principles don't apply.
I’ve found this just maintains the desire and taste for those foods.
In contrast, if you can avoid them entirely you can recalibrate how you experience food.
We now find sweets pretty sickening and broccoli sweet.
Instead of creating a new lifestyle that will become easier and more normal for you. Cheating it will stay just a diet and not a long-term change.
Ultimately, I see you cheating yourself out of a healthier life.
Now, it will really help to have supportive people around you. Helping you to stay faithful to your new way of eating.
So join or create a culinary community!
Find your people, people who eat the way you do, and support your healthy life changes.
If you want to change to a healthier way of living it can be hard when you feel alone in it and isolated by it. That’s why connecting with people who eat how you eat is so important I think. People whom you can have meals with and share recipes.
We have the person who got us onto this way of eating and it is so nice to hang out with her and eat the way we eat together. The feeling of comradery is great and it really motivates us to stick with it.
There are all sorts of online communities so there are no excuses if you don’t know anyone personally that eats like this.
As a bonus, we want to address how to stick to a healthy diet on the weekend.