In today's fast-paced world, it's essential to address the often-neglected topic of how to approach mental health conversations. Prepare to level up your communication skills and engage in those tough talks like a true champion!
Imagine this scenario: you notice a friend or acquaintance who seems off. They're not their usual self, and concern starts to gnaw at you. Well, it's time to step up and reach out because discussing mental health is a game-changer. Remember, it's better to express our thoughts and emotions than to keep them bottled up!
Before diving into the conversation, let's set the stage for success. Picture a calm, neutral environment where both parties feel comfortable. Avoid choosing inappropriate settings like work events or wild parties. Instead, opt for a relaxed atmosphere where you can openly communicate. Normalizing these discussions is key!
To have a truly impactful conversation, you must be fully present....
Hey there, it’s Michael Burrows, and I’m excited to talk to you about two powerful therapeutic approaches: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT).
Both of these therapies aim to help people overcome trauma, anxiety, and other psychological issues, but they use different approaches to achieve this goal.
Let's dive in and take a closer look at both of these therapies.
EMDR is a therapy that was developed in the late 1980s by psychologist Francine Shapiro. EMDR aims to help people reprocess traumatic memories by using rapid eye movements, similar to those that occur during rapid eye movement (REM) sleep.
During an EMDR session, the client recalls a traumatic memory while the therapist guides them through a specific pattern of eye movements. The theory behind this technique is that the eye movements help the brain process the traumatic memory and shift negative emotions related to the event.
EMDR has been...
Welcome, my friends, to my latest blog post, where we’ll dive deep into the subject of Claustrophobia, a fear of confined or crowded spaces, and how it links to panic attacks.
Many people don't realize that claustrophobia is one of the more impairing and disruptive phobias due to crowds and tight spaces, like elevators and public transport, being a common occurrence in our modern day-to-day lives. In fact, about 2.2% of the total population experiences claustrophobia, and it’s more common among women than men.
The intensity of claustrophobia can vary from person to person, but for some, even the thought of being in a confined space can be enough to make you squirm. Some common triggers of claustrophobia include elevators, public transport, markets, and shopping malls, small cafes, airplanes, and rooms with sealed or closed windows, just to name a few.
Now, let's talk about the effects of claustrophobia.
Some people may only experience mild...
What causes a fear of cats, or Ailuro-phobia?
Some people are not cat people, or may dislike cats.
If you’ve ever been scratched or bitten by a cat, you may be quite wary of them.
In either of these cases, you’re not going to go out of your way to spend time with them, but you’re also not going to spend a lot of time worrying about them.
Phobias are a lot stronger than dislike.
And today we are talking about Ailurophobia, Felinophobia, Elurophobia,
Gatophobia, Galeophobia or just straight, Cat Phobia.
Ailuro originates from the Greek word for cat.
Feline from Latin
And Gato from Spanish.
Lots of ways to say, “cats really freak me out!”
With ailurophobia you might spend a lot of time worrying about encountering cats and thinking about ways to avoid them.
This can be pretty disruptive to daily life, especially as cats are a very popular pet.
Speaking of, this fear is usually about domesticated cats rather than large predatory cats.
Claustrophobia – a fear of confined or crowded spaces - has a little known connection to Panic Attacks.
Keep reading to find out more about the causes of Claustrophobia and how it links to panic.
The intensity of Claustrophobia can vary from one person to another.
It can cause severe anxiety and panic attacks.
And for some who struggle with claustrophobia, even the thought of being in a confined space may be enough to make you squirm.
In terms of numbers – about 2.2% of the total population experience claustrophobia. And it is more common among women than men.
It generally starts for people around 20 years old.
And most people don’t get any support for it (their entire lives), despite the fact that it’s one of the more impairing and disruptive phobias due to crowds and tight spaces (like elevators) being a common occurrence in our modern day-to-day lives.
In fact, here are some of the common triggers of claustrophobia...
Sometimes when people come to see me, they can be worried that, given the wrong push, they’ll go crazy.
They’ll end up hurting someone, embarrassing themselves, or thrown in the looney bin.
With Panic fears, sometimes people can be afraid that if their anxiety goes any higher, they’ll lose it. They’ll go insane, or lose the plot.
This can be a fear of temporary insanity, where they panic and run out of a board meeting or punch and kick people in a desperate effort to leave a plane.
Or it can be a fear of more permanent loss of faculties, resulting in drooling in bed or in a Psych ward for the rest of their lives.
Now with Generalised Anxiety, we’re talking about what’s called Type 2 Worry.
This is when someone worries about the effect of all the worrying they’re doing.
In this instance, it’s the worry that...
It’s not uncommon for people to have anxiety about Heart Attacks, or a Heart Attack fear.
Especially amongst people struggling with Panic, as Panic Attacks can feel very similar.
Often you’re left wondering, “Am I having a Heart Attack or a Panic Attack?"
You might notice your chest tighten, your heart start pounding or fluttering and you start to sweat profusely.
Often people’s minds start racing to quickly figure out what’s going on, and with far more publicity on heart attacks than panic attacks, it’s easy for the mind to jump to that conclusion.
It’s that much more frightening and confusing if you’ve never had either a heart attack or panic attack. But even if you have had panic attacks before, you may wonder, “how do I know it's a panic attack and not a heart attack?”
So what’s the difference?
A heart attack is when part of your heart doesn’t get...
If it didn't constantly rear its ugly head , when your just going about your day.
If it didn't get in the way of what is most important to you, or impact on your significant relationships.
What if you could go for that opportunity you have always wanted without it getting in the way?
I can tell you want that means to me in one word...
Anxiety, with all its restrictions, can free like a cage.
A cage that gets smaller and smaller the more the anxiety grows.
However, what if there was a way to escape that cage?
To be free from limits in your life imposed by anxiety and really get to live again.
We all know there is more to life than the barriers erected by anxiety.
That life could be better with less fear and restriction, and a good dose more meaning and joy.
But it so often feels like it isn't a life you have access to, when you struggle with anxiety.
So I'm sitting in this psychiatrist’s office.
And sharing some thoughts I’ve been having and he turns to me and says...
Example of “What not to say to someone with anxiety”
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I'd been struggling with intense anxiety, lots of self negative thoughts, and pretty crippling depression.
I was in his office because attempts to "just not think like that" or "pull it together" hadn't worked.
If I’m honest, things had gotten pretty bad.
And I’m sitting with that man, struggled with an intense desire to just lie and tell him I did all the things he asked me to do last time.
Seriously, I just wanted those appointments to be over.
I wanted to hide.
I wanted to stay quiet.
I kept having this thought it was just me and I just needed to stop it.
Stop being anxious.